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Based on , described by Glamour.com as "the most crucial relationship advice book since ," this card deck has the power to stop an argument dead in its tracks. feature sixty-four written statements that hold the power to express what we wish we could say to the person we love, but for which we cant find either the right words or the right tone in which to say them. On the back of each beautifully designed card are field notes from the author that explain when, why, and how to use the statement. These cards include statements such as:These flash cards, as well asthe book on which they're based, were first inspired by a particularly angry couples therapy sessionin which a wifes unrelenting criticism of her husband was making him more and more emotionally withdrawn. Suddenly, Nancy Dreyfus found herself scribbling on a scrap of paper, Talk to me like Im someone you love, and gesturing to the husband that he should hold it up. He did, and within seconds, the familiar power differential between the two shifted, and a gentler, more genuine connection emerged before all their eyes. are a brilliant interactive relationship tool that can help couples stop arguing and begin healing.